残缺 vs 完美 @ imperfect vs perfect

Today...again...after almost one year been working in Benthany Home..I manage to plan one activity with special kids... From, brain storming of idea to planning to applications, from drafting to implementing, with the help of my chosen members...Finally, we make it into reality =)

Although it is just half day program, but it is a good start for me in organizing after joining as volunteer in Bethany Handicap Camp passed a year ago, which last for three days. 

We make it in . . . . . .

yea, that's me, capturing the sign board =='''

With my neighbors as participant showing 'peace' to me =P

Each of the participant will guide one special kid/ teenager and be with them all along the activities or games, from 9am until 5pm (as planned)

Yeah~ infront the main entrance of the biulding~ the building is damn new! and nice... suitable for such activities =)

Red Colored T-shirt EXCO & AJK  preparing the setting and games~

These are the activities that we played with them ~ they seemed enjoy & happy =)

Chicken Dance

After that, we stopped for a while for breakfast-making session... Me, as one of the 'free' committee members (since i'm perancang, pemantau...), will prepare the breakfast - sandwich while other kids are preparing it~ 

One of the finished group =)

Yumyum...eating after praparing~ 

This is my group one !! haha... im doing decoration & presentation of it =P

Then, we continued our games =D

This is my committee members~ all REDs =)

Since i'm free, i did the 跑腿 work also... buy souvenirs for the homes with my members...and pack it..

Ta~ ta~ ta~ tran~ ~ ~ all hand made (except the fruit basket la) ...nice?? =P

Having a small chat with some kids, during my lunch time... they are funny and cute... sometimes i think, they are leading life happily.. They are not like us, much to worry, much to pressure about... I asked them..are you happy with daily school life in the Home, they answered 'Yes' without doubt... they said they like it so much..can have a lot of fun... 

Yes, they are imperfect...but, they are happy..they are innocent.. they appreciate you if you treat them well... they easily satisfied with what they have... they never ask for more and more and more, like most of US!!!

So human, do not pity them, but, we should pity ourselves, that always dissatisfied with our life, always think that we are not lucky, always crave for somethings that we do not have but our friends have it.....At least, they never think so..NEVER.....they are, Happy.... =)

Taking photo after lunch time~ while waiting for Malays to pray =) Well, they are almost same age as me..20, 21, and the pinky one, 30... =)

 We ended it with a photography session wit all members if the program =)

Yes, i learned a lots... and again, remind myself that, 

we are far more perfect than them... What else we are asking for? 

知足

以前，有朋友这样所过我：‘你这样容易满足的？养你很容易咯…这样都开心 = = ’

对啊，我就是容易满足~

以前，心情不好，有巧克力吃就很开心~

小学时，放学时常偷买 choki-choki 吃…

回到家时，一定得吃完才敢按门铃…因为妈妈不给买 =P

Matriculation 放学时，买了印度人的 ‘muruku’ 回来，吃完整包就很满足~

根本不需要吃什么山珍海味，或者很多好吃昂贵的零食~

得到一个小小，在别人眼中不值钱的东东，我都会很开心~

不懂得，还以为我傻的…在那边自己笑…= =

所以说，生日礼物，从来难不倒了解我的人 =)

近来，长大了，虽然还是这样~

可是在有些事上，因被种种的竞争，战斗之下…

渐渐地，在自己不知觉的情况下，改变了自己的 ‘满足，快乐’ 的原则~

有时，问问自己，是不是要求太多呢？

友情上，爱情上，亲情上，事业上，生活上……

要求太高太多，倒回来难受的都是自己吧……

就像是，自己跟自己过不去那样~

友情上，帮了你这次，并不代表一定会帮你下一次~

人家没欠你，别把人家的暖手当做是理所当然的~

爱情上也是~ 她/他 没有欠你的…

就算是男朋友，也不是 atm 机！

请你吃一餐，并不代表一定要请你吃下一餐……

（虽然男朋友得自动点，请女朋友是应该的）

（但是女朋友并不可以只是吃男友的，有时应该自动还钱，又或者买东西给他吃）

事业上，要求太高，就会变得不懂欣赏自己的好~

终觉得自己做的不够好~

觉得自己没有用~ 又何必呢？

生活上，丰衣足食就好~

别那么奢侈~ 看见什么都要~

有多少人，连一粒馒头都买不起 =(

人，是健忘的…（跟自己说，因为自己很健忘 >.<）

时不时，得提醒自己，要知足 =)

看看这幅图，就懂什么叫做 ‘做人要知足’ =)

常常，‘知足常乐’ 这四个字，是人人都懂得，可是，又有多少能做到呢？

Wushu Gang =P

Today, lets write some happy stuff... 

is about my outing during this mid-sem break =)

I did enjoyed a lot as i really need a space, a chance... 

to express myself, that have long been in stress situation.

With my WUSHU GANG =P We really can do anything, 

from wushu to singing, bowling, to watching movie....

All activities that i wanted to do before holiday =D

Here they are..... ^^ all also 38 one... old but mentally still young =P hehehehee.....

Sing K at Green Box

Me and CMC, mostly also sad songs... Only we know, how much those songs meant to us... 

Tai Chi girl, her voice very powerful !! i like the way she sang... 

But i know, i wil never have it as i m not 'talented' in singing = =

Another one, the girl that likes Ding Dang's song very much one.... 

Tai Chi said her voice very much like DIng Dang =) 

They all can sing well... Well, 我就献丑献丑了 =P

RM12 for 2hours, with one bowl spaghetti and one can of drink...worth it?? 

After that, we go watch for 'THE HUNGER GAMES'

Well, at first i kinda suspect, is it a good movie?

I got my answer when watch till the middle part of it.. is, NICE 

and not as 'bloody' as expected =)

Is about a relationship vs humannity vs survival...

I wonder, will i scarify myself to the one i love? Well, maybe i haven met one i really love...

Miss 'Ding Dang's self-capture technique not bad woo...

aim for the background, set place then capture~ 

The effect, exactly same as what she wan woo !!! GENG !!! 

Next, we went for Bowling before have our dinner =)

Yeah!!! BAR. B. Q PLAZA !!!! this shall be the first time for me =)

We ordered pork set... the port is nice...all the meats are nice there.... soft and fresh !!!

Although is kinda expensive, but, not bad to have a try for those who never been there before... 

We also have a sea-food set =)

 Wish that one day, i can have such gathering again =)

I really did enjoy but the time is too short for me.. 

i wish i could stay nearby so is no need for me to rush back =)

Hahaha... funny self-captured photo =P

Thanks guys for a nice day ^^

LOVE YOU ALL !!!!!!!!!