Promises? Security? Love?

A guy friend of mine, has been working and studying in foreign country for many years..almost 6 years after he broke with his girl friend, he came back to her again...The reasons they broke that time, all those promises, now, he comes back and brings them back to her. Those success is what he has worked out these years, with only one reason, to show her his love and to prove to her that now, he can give the security that he can't give 6 years ago. However, she rejected him without second word. He felt that what he did all these years are in vain. He felt lost and does not know how to continue his life now here as he purposely came back for her...

Well...do you really know what exactly she wants? I am sure that, after 6 years, the reason she rejected you again will not be the same reason. Yes, last time she needs more security, needs a granted future from you. But now, after 6 years, although she still need 'those stuff', but you are not longer the person that she hopes to get 'it' from.
From my opinion as a girl, a girl needs cares and loves. After so many years, u never contacted her but you work hard for her alone outside there. She does not even know about your care! Seeing you happy and seems like you are enjoying life outside there..do you think that she will still waiting for you? I'm sure that she already changed her mind and started to fall for another person that cares & loves her.
If you wanna work hard for her, fine it is good but please do not forget to 'let her know' and remember keep 'reminding' her about your existence! If you don't, you will finally being eliminated from her life. Do not ever come back to her and expecting her to accept you as before. This will never happen unless.....unless she still waiting for you there (This is very rare as waiting for a guy alone is indeed suffering, like waiting for uncertainties in life...never take risk !!! If you love her, speak it out! If you care her, show your care!!!)

Love is like a business...you need to put effort in all the time after you started it. And it involves both sides, do not do it alone. 爱是需要双方一起经营的，不要一个人自己在一旁努力~ 对方是看不到，感觉不到的……适当时就得让对方知道~